It seems like yesterday that we were in yeshiva together, first in the States and then in Eretz Yisroel. Upon returning to Lakewood, we again learned together.
After you exited the freezer, you were immediately grabbed up; after all, you have all the maalos. When we would meet afterwards, you would update me with the additions to the mishpachah. I made a point to come to the simchos, even though I am single.
Fast forward 20 years. I am still single. Yet, throughout this time, you have not felt the need to be of assistance with shidduchim. It hurts.
I heard from an adam gadol that the epidemic of OTD children is in some part related to having not assisted older single friends.
To the readers of this letter, think before you kvell about your children to an older single. It’s a dagger right through the heart.