Tu B’Shevat: Our Personal Peiros, Our Children


sender-kaszirerBy Rabbi Sender Y. Kaszirer

This week we celebrate the Yom Tov of Tu B’ishvat. The Mishna in Rosh Hashanah tells us that Tu B’ishvat is the New Year for trees. The minhag in Klal Yisroel is to eat many different fruit especially shivas haminim. The message is clear “ki haadam eitz hasdeh” man is compared to a tree, therefore his children and offspring are fruit of the tree. Let us apply this message of Tu B’ishvat as a mean and a way to be mechanech our children.

Fruit are so different and unique,each has its own beautiful quality, color, and taste. The grape grows in clusters on a vine, row after row, has one specific season, and harvest. The fig tree on the other hand is the exact opposite, no two fig fruit ripe simultaneously, its season is spread across the entire summer and its fruits grow in a wild manner throughout the tree (As the mishna in ms. Peah writes that the mitzvah of peah does not apply to figs because ain lekitaso keachas, the fruit is not gathered in one specific time.) Pomegranates as we know have a tough bitter outer skin, but the inside are so fruity and sweet. The olive is a small bitter fruit but grows on a low tree, easy to reach, while on the other hand dates, grow on a tall high palm tree way out of reach but once you get to them you are rewarded with a juicy sweet fruit.

The similarity is quite obvious. Many children and students perform beautifully in a typical yeshiva system their learning is predictable. And our tried and true curriculum is the key to their hatzalcha just like grapes in a vineyard. It is therefore no coincidence that Chazal refer to a yeshiva as kerem (e.g. kerem b’yavne). Yet we must realize there are other fruits as well, figs, tee’aina. They take some more time to bloom and ripen. These students need patience and understanding, and some more time for them to blossom and produce its beauty. But with proper care they give us nachas and fulfillment. It is for this reason that Shlomo Hamelech writes in Mishlei “notzer tee’aina yochal piryah” that one who watches and has the patience for the fig to ripen he will reap true nachas.

The list goes on and on, while some students are hard to reach but once you penetrate that thick outer shell you are rewarded to see their true sweet yiddishe neshama. The common thread is that all talmidim and children deserve their chance to thrive and to blossom with one important component. They must be connected to the tree, the “eitz chaim” our heilge Torah.

On Tu B’ishvat we are mispallel for “peiros hailon” fruit of the trees. Let us daven for our own personal peirus, our beloved children that each and everyone shall burst forth and develop into his or her own beautiful personality, each one with their personal talents goals and aspirations. Let us present to Hakadosh Baruch Hu this beautiful basket of bikkurim made up of all different fruit and all together each one will be a source of nachas for Klal Yisroel.

Rabbi Sender Y. Kaszirer is Rosh Yeshiva of Mesivta of Eatontown. M.O.E. is a Yeshiva that caters to boys who are at risk of failing the typical yeshiva system. Rabbi Kaszirer is a sought after educator, who counsels many teens and parents alike. He can be contacted rabbik@themesivta.com.

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  1. One should daven for a good esrog on Tu B’Shvat, as well as for good children, “Ki ha’adam eitz hasadeh.. bonim u’vnei banim eilu peiros ha’eitzim”
    May Hashem answer all our tefillos, b’karov


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