Context, were u unsure..is he just a name or have you dated for a while? Do u want to say yes but you want someone else to stamp the decision and accept responsibility
I Would Say No To My Bashert If I Don’t Like Her & I Would Say Yes To Not My Bashert If I Like Her
If you are not prepared to follow the advice, dont ask.
The Yated is not for me.
Should I buy it anyway?
The NYT and WaPo have the same kind of left leaning articles and might be cheaper.
In the chasidishe communities its customary to ask their rebbi about the names of the parents and chosen and Kallah Obviously you don’t ask when your about to get engaged. Is the mekubal well known or a fly by night.
If you are old enough and mature enough to get married, then you dont need anyone else’s opinion.
If you are looking for outside approval, then you need to grow up.
MARRY HIM ANYWAY.IF IT DOESN’T WORK OUT YOU CAN ALWAYS DIVORCE HIM.
To “Neville Coleman”
hope your joking, because that sounds weird just like your name
who cares what the world says. if you both are compatible in your eyes, then get married.
only you know yourself and your feelings not someone else.
To ‘NEVILLE COLEMAN’:
My Great-grandfather is reputed to have said it in a slightly different way; the idea is the same: “Marry him anyway; give it a year, & then, if it doesn’t work out “Shlog Kapporas” with him; namely, ‘Divorce Him’.
I don’t think divorce is something to joke about. There are too many people out there who have ended up “alone” because of it.